Mary Faltz
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About Mary

 

Dr. Mary Faltz is a clinical research scientist and an accredited pharmacist. The second born in a family of six children, she is a survivor of child abuse that lasted 16 years.

Pushed to the extreme by her abuser, she finally gathered all her courage and pressed charges when she turned 26.

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Photos from the Launch Event at Cercle Cité, Luxembourg City , 14th February 2026

Coffee with Mary

1:1 informal conversation for clarity and connection (60 or 90 minutes)

Code of conduct

To ensure a safe, respectful, and empowering space for meaningful conversation, all clients are asked to agree to the following principles before attending a session:

1. Respect & Boundaries

Sessions are held in public cafés or quiet shared spaces for mutual comfort and safety. Any form of aggressive, disrespectful, inappropriate, or intrusive behavior will result in immediate termination of the session. Please arrive on time and respect the agreed-upon session duration.

2. Confidentiality

Everything shared in our conversation remains strictly confidential, unless there is a clear risk of harm to yourself or others. Recording (audio or video) is not permitted without explicit mutual consent.

3. Professional Intent

Coffee with Mary is a space for reflection, personal growth, and emotional clarity — not a date, therapy, or emergency support.
Sessions are non-clinical and non-therapeutic, and do not replace medical or psychological treatment.

4. Identification & Presence

To ensure trust and transparency, clients may be asked to verify their identity (e.g., LinkedIn, Instagram handle, or phone number). Sessions are only confirmed with pre-booked, verified individuals.

5. Cancellation & Conduct

Cancellations must be made at least 24 hours in advance. Late cancellations or no-shows may result in forfeiting the session fee. The facilitator reserves the right to decline or reschedule sessions if safety or alignment is in question.

RTL Today radio The Melissa dalton show

Octobre rose Fashion show 2024

Orange Week 2021 

Labels in society (TEDx Luxembourg 2021)

International Women’s Day 2022

Match Aligned! Video presentation

Conférence (Banque de Luxembourg) 2023

1 enfant sur 5

Conférence (Banque de Luxembourg) 2023

‘Pourquoi n’as-tu rien dit plus tôt ?’

THE BOOKs

Match Aligned

MATCH ALIGNED! is now available.

This book is an invitation to choose alignment over chaos, quality over quantity, and presence over performance — in dating, relationships, work, and life.

Cruelly Betrayed

I put my own father in prison. 16 years of sexual abuse and threats. 16 years of fear and silence. 16 years of forced smiles and resilience. 10 years of studies. 7 years of pregnancy. 4 years of criminal trials. 10 years of marriage. 5 years of deception. Half a year of cancer…and only 37 years old.

There was no time to ask ‘Why me ?’. Facing my own mortality made me realise that a big chapter of my life was not over yet and that I was not as free as I thought I was. These pages have written themselves in the middle of a still, ongoing heavy storm.

Nicolas, a charismatic Christian figure, a sacrificing husband, and a hailed hero. But who is Nicolas really? What is hiding behind the smile of this seemingly generous father of six? What is his darkest secret?

Following her mother’s death, Mary felt the urgent need to understand exactly what had happened to her estranged mother. She embarked on a painful quest to dig up 30 years of archives, but what she discovered was beyond anything she could ever have imagined…

News & BLOG

SAWAH – ça va pas !

It’s been 18 months since publishing my (first) book and the chronic backlash from my ‘family’ has been substantial. What makes me write this post, however, is the latest obnoxious lawyer’s letter from the abuser himself, who is very very eager to cash in on my dead...

Public speaking

Thoroughly enjoyed this 8 hour public speaking course with Dirk Daenen at CNFPC, definitely worth the price tag! I am convinced that public speaking must become an integral part of elementary school curriculum!! It is not a nice to have but an absolute must have from...

“Why did you not say something earlier?”

The main question that many sexual abuse victims get asked is: *Why did you not say something earlier?* Let me try and answer that question with a picture that many may be familiar with. Firstly, to make victims understand why they waited so long to speak about what...

d’Lëtzebuerger Land -Femme de combats

Abusée par son père pendant seize ans, Mary Faltz brise l’omerta. Elle se bat contre les violences sexuelles. Mais pas que... Photo: Sven Becker

Happy 3rd birthday to me 🙂

I feel very euphoric to have reached the 41st level of this delicious game of life!🥰 May I be lucky enough to reach another 59 levels at least!🥂  I wish myself a very happy birthday🥳😁 Thank you to my body for carrying me this far into the game, nearly not reaching the...

Dear Chemo port

Dear Chemo Port, Today is the day I say goodbye to you and deeply thank you for your service. You’ve been bittersweet. A constant visual reminder of the heavy cancer treatment, yet also a reassuring companion whispering that if I ever needed more chemo, I’d be ready....

Groupe de parole (Facebook)

Ce groupe privé est strictement destiné à toute personne, de sexe masculin ou féminin, qui a survécu à l’abus sexuel durant l’enfance et/ou jeunesse. Vous pouvez parler ouvertement, de façon anonyme ou simplement être spectateur sans contribution tout en étant à...

Extract from My new book ‘My Father’

The first pages of 'My Father'

Reviews

A powerful, captivating testimony of human resilience in the face of multiple life traumas.

Jane McLelland

Award-winning, Bestselling author of How To Starve Cancer and a Stage IV cancer survivor of 26 years

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