Mary Faltz
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About Mary

 

Dr. Mary Faltz is a clinical research scientist and an accredited pharmacist. The second born in a family of six children, she is a survivor of child abuse that lasted 16 years.

Pushed to the extreme by her abuser, she finally gathered all her courage and pressed charges when she turned 26.

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Coffee with Mary

1:1 informal conversation for clarity and connection (60 or 90 minutes)

Code of conduct

To ensure a safe, respectful, and empowering space for meaningful conversation, all clients are asked to agree to the following principles before attending a session:

1. Respect & Boundaries

Sessions are held in public cafés or quiet shared spaces for mutual comfort and safety. Any form of aggressive, disrespectful, inappropriate, or intrusive behavior will result in immediate termination of the session. Please arrive on time and respect the agreed-upon session duration.

2. Confidentiality

Everything shared in our conversation remains strictly confidential, unless there is a clear risk of harm to yourself or others. Recording (audio or video) is not permitted without explicit mutual consent.

3. Professional Intent

Coffee with Mary is a space for reflection, personal growth, and emotional clarity — not a date, therapy, or emergency support.
Sessions are non-clinical and non-therapeutic, and do not replace medical or psychological treatment.

4. Identification & Presence

To ensure trust and transparency, clients may be asked to verify their identity (e.g., LinkedIn, Instagram handle, or phone number). Sessions are only confirmed with pre-booked, verified individuals.

5. Cancellation & Conduct

Cancellations must be made at least 24 hours in advance. Late cancellations or no-shows may result in forfeiting the session fee. The facilitator reserves the right to decline or reschedule sessions if safety or alignment is in question.

RTL Today radio The Melissa dalton show

Octobre rose Fashion show 2024

Orange Week 2021 

Labels in society (TEDx Luxembourg 2021)

TEDx Luxembourg City 2021

A random Saturday night at Carlitos Comedy Club Luxembourg

International Women’s Day 2022

Live chat 2020 (still in chemotherapy – cancer survival uncertain)

Conférence (Banque de Luxembourg) 2023

1 enfant sur 5

Conférence (Banque de Luxembourg) 2023

‘Pourquoi n’as-tu rien dit plus tôt ?’

THE BOOKs

Match Aligned

MATCH ALIGNED! is now available.

This book is an invitation to choose alignment over chaos, quality over quantity, and presence over performance — in dating, relationships, work, and life.

Cruelly Betrayed

I put my own father in prison. 16 years of sexual abuse and threats. 16 years of fear and silence. 16 years of forced smiles and resilience. 10 years of studies. 7 years of pregnancy. 4 years of criminal trials. 10 years of marriage. 5 years of deception. Half a year of cancer…and only 37 years old.

There was no time to ask ‘Why me ?’. Facing my own mortality made me realise that a big chapter of my life was not over yet and that I was not as free as I thought I was. These pages have written themselves in the middle of a still, ongoing heavy storm.

Nicolas, a charismatic Christian figure, a sacrificing husband, and a hailed hero. But who is Nicolas really? What is hiding behind the smile of this seemingly generous father of six? What is his darkest secret?

Following her mother’s death, Mary felt the urgent need to understand exactly what had happened to her estranged mother. She embarked on a painful quest to dig up 30 years of archives, but what she discovered was beyond anything she could ever have imagined…

News & BLOG

Lundi littéraire – Aalt Stadhaus Déifferdeng le 4 mars 2o24

Lundi littéraire au Aalt Stadhaus organisé par la Ville de Differdange et la Bibliothèque Differdange le 4 mars 2024. Soirée importante, remettant notre société en question face à une problématique bien trop répandue. Beaucoup d’autres soirées conférences-débat...

Conférence-Débat Lycée Edward Steichen Clervaux le 26 septembre 2024

Conférence-débat au Lycée Edward Steichen - Ecole internationale Edward Steichen organisé en collaboration avec la commune de Clervaux Un grand grand Bravo à Léini, élève d’une 3e CC qui a assuré la modération de l’évènement comme une pro - le Public speaking, un soft...

Happiest girl alive!!

I am seriously the luckiest and happiest Mary on this planet!🥰 Facing these doors to Hell this morning…with its good, bad and ugly sides. My annual lease on this delicious life has just been renewed again and with it, my fierce love for my mere existence💕💕💕 What an...

Living library le 27 mars 2024 à Esch

Soirée d’échanges LIVING LIBRARY 🔸When? 27/03/2024, 19h30 - 22h00 🔹Where? Auberge de Jeunesse 17, Boulevard John F. Kennedy, L-4170 Esch-sur-Alzette Inscription obligatoire: egalitedeschances@villeesch.lu ou Tél: 2754-5910 The concept of the human library definitely...

ARA City Radio interview

Dr Mary Faltz was sexually abused by her father. Many years, four children and one cancer diagnosis later, she decided to speak up about her experience and wrote a book about her life. Dr. Mary Faltz was our guest on “Local Matters”, in the interview, she talked about...

Entre 4 murs – La violence sous toutes ses formes (Conférence-Débat)

Entre 4 murs - La violence sous toutes ses formes Conférence-débat par Dr Mary Faltz 4 décembre 2025 à 18:30  Maison pour Tous, Olm (Elmen) - Gemeng Kielen La violence, sous toutes ses formes, façonne nos sociétés et nos relations. Dans le cadre de la Orange Week au...

Interview – Janette Magazine

Ecrit en huit semaines pendant sa chimiothérapie, 'Trahie dans sa chair' est une ode à la vie, une leçon de courage et de bonheur face au parcours de vie semé d'embûches de Mary Faltz. Rencontre avec l'auteure, qui vit au Luxembourg avec ses quatre enfants.

Reviews

A powerful, captivating testimony of human resilience in the face of multiple life traumas.

Jane McLelland

Award-winning, Bestselling author of How To Starve Cancer and a Stage IV cancer survivor of 26 years

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